Sunday, September 11, 2011

I Will Never Forget


I've been trying to get a grip on my feelings about this, the 10th anniversary of the terrorist attacks on the World Trade Center, the Pentagon and United 93. I hate to use the word "anniversary" to describe it, but there's really no better word. The attacks shook me to my very core that day.

We had just gotten married in the beginning of August, 2001. Two days after we returned from our honeymoon, Matt's grandfather passed away. And less than a month later, 4 airplanes were hi-jacked and plowed into 3 buildings and a hill. That's a lot of drama for 6 weeks' time.

I remember exactly where I was when I heard the news.  I was at work, getting ready to go do the banking before the restaurant opened.  Someone knocked on the drive-thru window and relayed the horrific news to me.  I was numb for the rest of the day, and for several days following. My heart ached for all those people who's loved ones never made it home...from work, their trips, etc.

Especially the children. How heartbreaking it must have been to have to explain to those poor children why mommy or daddy died. It wasn't 
an accident or equipment malfunction.

It was pure evil.

So, how do we deal with this tragedy, all these years later. I can't imagine whether it helps the healing process to have to relive the attacks every year. How do we get closure without forgetting what was done on that terrible day?  How do we honor those lost without re-opening the survivors' wounds? 

The best answer I can come up with is to pray. Pray for those souls that were lost. Pray for their families, trying to pick up the pieces. Pray for those who were injured.  Pray for the service men and women who have fight every day to protect our freedom.  Pray for police officers, fire fighters, EMTs, etc. who put their lives on the line to protect our safety. Pray that we might forgive those awful acts (Col 3:13), but NEVER forget them.    



Wednesday, September 7, 2011

Homeschool 2011-2012

We hit the ground running Tuesday for the beginning of our new homeschool season; and the first day was a success!  This will be our third year homeschooling, and a year with some firsts in it for us; RJ is doing mostly 4th grade curricula and Emily is doing 1st grade.  This year also adds some intensity for both the kids as RJ's studies become more in depth; and Emily has curricula for each subject for the first time.  I'll have to adjust and tweak our schedules a bit to figure out a rhythm that works for us.  Megan even wants in on the action, insisting that she is "ready to go to homeschool."  We don't start till age 4, but I have been amassing lots of stuff for her to do, including preschool activity bags, puzzles, crafts, and more.  Audrey was content with riding her car around the kitchen and playing with puzzles and the LeapFrog fridge magnets for most of the day.



Tuesday, September 6, 2011

Summer Fun!

Its time to dust the blog off and start writing again.  We had a very busy and fun summer this year.  We always try to make a point to spend a lot of our summer with family  And we ended up seeing lots of both sides of the family, which the kids just loved - they have so much fun with their cousins!

We kicked off June with the Festival of the Arts in downtown Grand Rapids, where the kids had lots of fun making all sorts of arts & crafts.  The 3 oldest kids had a combined birthday celebration with tons of friends and family and a fun bounce house.  We went to Start of Summer fireworks in downtown Rockford.  We finished June up with VBS at our church.  

Audrey had her first birthday in July; and we saw fireworks for Independence Day in Kentwood.  RJ and Emily were able to participate in a few summer camps too!  July was extremely hot this year, so we spent a lot of time swimming - in pools, at Lincoln Lake, Myers Lake and Millennium Park.  I was even able to take the girls out to Lake Michigan for an afternoon for swimming, walking on the pier and watching the sunset (RJ was at camp).  We also went to Frederick Meijer Gardens and the Montcalm County 4H Fair.  A flood forced us to remodel the bathroom in the middle of July (its been almost finished for weeks now...)

We kicked August off with the annual Sansoterra Family camp with our family and two of  Matt's brothers' families and his mom.  We camped for a few days and then went to Michigan's Adventure - we do this just about every year, but this year we happened to go on our 10 year anniversary!  Matt took the kids to the zoo and then we had a weekend camp out with our church family.  RJ, Emily, and I were in the Danish Festival Parade on the homeschool float, while Matt, Megan, and Audrey watched.  We finished out the month with a "Not" Back to School Picnic with some homeschool friends.

Our final hurrah of the summer was going to the Whitecaps game the day before RJ's birthday.  They announced it over the loudspeaker and he ended up catching a t-shirt!  


Thursday, July 7, 2011

Summertime!

I haven't forgotten about this...I've been too busy enjoying summer with my kids - no time to blog!  I'll start blogging again when summer starts winding down.  Enjoy!

Friday, June 3, 2011

Festival of the Arts 2011

We took the kids to the Festival of the Arts downtown today.  The weather was absolutely perfect:  it was 80, partly sunny and breezy.  In years past, its been either blistering hot or pouring down rain.  Because we went in the afternoon, the crowds were quite light and we didn't have to wait in any lines for anything!  This was our second year taking the kids to take part in the festival experience.  Its really quite fun for me as a parent, because they are doing the same activities that I did at festival as a kid.  I remember my mom taking my brother and I to Festival and doing the Paint-In and Glue-In and more.  This was the first year that Megan could participate with her older siblings and they all had a blast.  We started the day with making hats at "Mad Hatters", then we went over to the Paint-In and Glue-In.  We finished up the day by making screenprinted t-shirts, getting faces painted and riding the massive tire swing.  There was great music to be heard at the various stages: from jazz, to oldies, to Star Wars theme music and more.  Here is a collage of our fun at Festival today!


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Monday, May 30, 2011

Happy Memorial Day!

A lot of people, us included, see this weekend as the unofficial beginning of summer.  Time to work out in the yard or on home improvement projects.  Some may go camping or have bonfires and cookouts.  All of that is wonderful, but we need to take time to remember what Memorial Day is for - giving thanks and reverence to those who serve or have served for our freedom here in the USA.  Please take a few minutes out of your day to talk to your kids about the meaning of Memorial Day today!

Saturday, May 28, 2011

Upper Elementary Reading List

A list of great books for upper elementary kids:


Fifth & Sixth Grade
Anne of Green Gables
Blackthorn Winter
Cricket in Times Square
Heidi
Johnny Tremaiun
Lad: A Dog
Old Yeller
Robinson Crusoe
Secret Garden
Susan creek
Swiss Family Robinson
Treasure Island
Where the Red Fern Grows
Two Williams
Witch of Blackbird Pond
Indian in the Cupboard
Little Lord Fauntleroy
The Whipping Boy
The Westing Game
Around the World in Eighty Days
Call of the Wild
White Fang
Fahrenheit 451
A Christmas Carol
Jungle Book
Little Women
Kidnapped
The Yearling
Bridge to Terabithia
The Island
Maniac McGee
The Midwife's Apprentice
The Phantom Tollbooth
Number the Stars
Roll of Thunder, Hear My Cry
Where the Red Fern Grows
The Black Stallion

Friday, May 27, 2011

Grand Rapids LipDub!

A while back, Newsweek reported that Grand Rapids Michigan was a "dying city".  Rob Bliss disagreed with that assessment and wanted to prove Newsweek wrong.  He did this by orchestrating and filming the longes and largest lip dub ever.  I know its 10 minutes long, but its so cool, you have to watch it all the way through!


Wednesday, May 25, 2011

Middle Elementary Reading List

Favorite middle elementary books:


Second Third & Fourth Grade
Encyclopedia Brown Series
The Hundred Dresses
Mouse Soup
My Father's Dragon
Now We are Six
Owls in the Family
Sarah Plain and Tall
Boxcar Children Series
The Adventures of Taxi Dog
Nim's Island
Matilda
Nate the Great
Charlie and the Chocolate Factory
James and the Giant Peach
Alice in Wonderland
Charlotte's Web
Chronicles of Narnia
Little House Series
The Mouse and the Motorcycle
Ramona books
Tales of a Fourth Grade Nothing and other Fudge books
Pippi Longstocking books
A Light in the Attic
Where the Sidewalk Ends
Stuart Little
Judy Moody
Danny;  The Champion of the World
Geronimo Stilton series
The Adventures of Tom Sawyer
Beowolf
Dangerous Journey
Faerie Gold
From the Mixed Up Files of Mrs. Basil Frankweiler
King Arthur and His Knights
Leepike Ridge
Macbeth
Mary Poppins
Robin Hood
Story of Rolf and the Viking
Twenty-One Balloons

Tuesday, May 24, 2011

Psalm 119

As I was reading my Bible today, this stood out.  I think the Spirit is always giving us things to ponder, we just need to listen.

1 Joyful are people of integrity,
  who follow the instructions of the LORD.
2 Joyful are those who obey his laws
  and search for him with all their hearts.
3 They do not compromise with evil,
  and they walk only in his paths.
4 You have charged us
  to keep your commandments carefully.
5 Oh, that my actions would consistently
  reflect your decrees!
6 Then I will not be ashamed
  when I compare my life with your commands.
7 As I learn your righteous regulations,
  I will thank you by living as I should!
8 I will obey your decrees.                                      
  Please don't give up on me!
 Psalm 119: 1-9

Monday, May 23, 2011

Young Elementary Reading List

Helping my kids choose books to read is always a fun trip down memory lane for me.  I love that they are enjoying books that I enjoyed as a kid.  I've been researching and compiling lists of books that I want to share with them.

Kindergarten - First Grade:
Curious George
Caps for Sale
Corduroy
If You Give a Mouse a Cookie
Blueberries for Sal
The Little Engine that Could
Floss
A Chair for Mother
Harry the Dirty Dog
Billy Blaze
Bread and Jam for Francis
Dr. DeSoto
Frog and Toad are Friend
Frog and Toad All Year Long
Madeline
Nate the Great
Nate the Great and the Lost List
Miss Nelson is Missing!
The Biggest Bear
A New Coat for Anna
Stone Soup
Mr. Putter and Tabby Pour the Tea
Henry and Mudge
Little Bear
Little Bear's Friend
Amelia Bedelia
Peter Rabbit
The Emperor's New Clothes
The Cat in the Hat
Bartholomew and the Oobleck
Fox in Socks
Green Eggs and Ham
Hop on Pop
Horton Hatches the Egg
Horton Hears a Who!
How the Grinch Stole Christmas!
Marvin K. Mooney Will You Please Go Now!
Mr. Brown Can Moo!  Can You?
Oh, the Places You'll Go!
One Fish Two Fish Red Fish Blue Fish
Berenstein Bears Books
The Very Hungry Caterpillar
Danny and the Dinosaur
Magic Tree House Series

Saturday, May 14, 2011

Its Time to Grow Up: Being an Adult About Body Image and Fitness

I've had a huge wake-up call this past week.  To be honest, the signs have been there for the past decade.  I've just had distractions (read: pregnancies and procrastination) to help me avoid seeing the light.

From the time I was in high school until I was pregnant, it was really easy to lose weight and stay fit.  I was extremely active, which burned alot of calories.  By modifying my food intake, I could easily lose 5 pounds in a week if  I thought I needed to.  That being said, I had a hard time coming to terms with my body image.  The fact is: I'm tall, with a large skeletal frame.  That's the way God made me, and I accept that - now.  Back then, I was surrounded by size zero to 6 girls who were 4 or more inches shorter than me - who, according to cultural standards, embodied the  "perfect" figure.  It never occured to me then that I am built differently and different doesn't mean imperfect.  I spent a lot (read: wasted) of energy trying to conform my body to that standard of "perfection".  No amount of exercising can change how long your bones are and the way they're put together!

Fast forward to now and I'm looking wistfully at my imperfect body of the past.  I wish I had appreciated it more then, because now I would love to have it back!

Its been a long road to where I am now.  Working and eating at a fast food restaurant for 12 years, five pregnancies and nursing 4 babies have taken their toll on my body.  I've developed some really bad habits, letting food become an obsession, a reward system and a security blanket.   I decided I'd had enough last fall and decided to start working hard to reclaim my body - for sanity and health's sake.  I started working out 4 and 5 days a week, and then it happened.  An old knee injury reared its ugly head and I was forced to put exercising on hold until it was fixed.

At that point, I found myself in an interesting position.  I often heard people complaining about exercising all while wishing I could.  I used to be the complainer and now I wanted to be able to do what I had complained about.  This past week marked 3 weeks after my partial meniscectomy, which meant that I was able to start easing into a low impact exercise routine.  I decided that I needed to track my food intake as well, so I could really make sure that I am consuming ENOUGH calories.  After all, what's the point of exercising if I'm going to turn around and eat more than I just worked hard to burn off?

The first day, I ate as I usually would and found that I am not getting enough protein on a daily basis and I'm getting too much calories and carbohydrates.  Looking at that objectively I realized that the lack of protein explains the huge energy slump I experience every day.  I'd been trying to regain that energy with caffeine or sugar laden foods, which explains some of the excess calories.  I was a lot more mindful the next 3 days and then I dropped the ball again at the end of the week.  Stress plays a huge factor in my eating choices, which is another thing I need to retrain myself on.

I've determined that becoming healthy and getting into shape is important for several reasons.  First and foremost is for my kids.  I need to set an example for them about how to eat right to stay healthy and to regard food in a healthy manner.  Also, I need to help my daughters, especially, to form a positive body image while they're young.  Confidence in their bodies now will hopefully help them in the future.   Secondly, I need to get into shape to help prevent health conditions that are associated with weight such as diabetes, heart disease, and more.  Finally I need to do it for my mental health and self confidence.

Sunday, April 24, 2011

Monday, April 18, 2011

Pinewood Derby Time!

RJ's Cub Scout Pack was on mlive.com Sunday!  If you look closely at the end of the video, you'll see him!

Video: Whoosh! It's Pinewood Derby time for Cub Scouts and their cool and crazy cars

Published: Sunday, April 17, 2011, 9:43 AM     Updated: Sunday, April 17, 2011, 10:00 AM
The whir of the wheels. The smell of fresh paint on pine. The cheers of 9-year-olds in the throes of race-day excitement.

Derby cars.jpg
Ready to race.
Cub Scouts across the land are taking part in the Pinewood Derby, a time-honored tradition -- it dates back to 1953 -- that starts with a simple block of wood and some wheels and ends with grins and trophies.
Boys ponder, saw, carve, sand, paint and tweak until their cars are ready for the big day.  Then the Scouts proudly stride in with their cars and the fun begins. Some are sleek, with flame decals and racing stripes. Some are disguised as dinosaurs with spiky backs. One ingenious kid (with help from his dad) carved his in the shape of bacon and eggs.
The agony! Your car came in last. Every time. The ecstasy! You won a trophy for wackiest design.
Winners advance to the district derby May 14.
Watch Pack 3219 as they competed at Northview Public School’s Highlands Middle School Saturday.




Get so close to the track with a shot from the “Derby Cam” you can smell the excitement. See a car piloted by Stitch. Hear the Lancaster twins tell how it’s not all about winning.
It might make you want to carve yourself a sweet little race car.

Wednesday, April 13, 2011

"Traveling" Around the World

During our homschooling season, we don't take a Christmas or Spring Break like public schools do, but we do take days off from "doing school" to go on educational outings or even just to run errands.  Since public schools were on Spring Break last week, I decided that we would change up our school routine and add some fun outings to our week along with a lighter schoolwork schedule.

I read that Cornerstone University's Psychology students were offering a "KidLab" in which the students could interact and observe kids in real-life play-based learning situations.  The kids would "travel" in groups of 10 to 4 different countries.  In each country, they would learn where that country is in the world and how large it is in comparison with the U.S.  The kids played games that kids in the country play and they had snacks that are popular in that country.  When they left one country to travel to the next, they would get their passports stamped, just like they would in real life.

We went to Israel first (I tagged along to help Megan because the program was geared to kids age 5-12).  Along with the basic geography lesson, the kids learned a little of the Hebrew alphabet.  They broke up into two groups and played the dreidel game for candies and chocolate coins.  RJ and Emily didn't do very well at the game, but had fun anyway.  While they were playing, they enjoyed a popular Israeli snack - pita bread with hummus - yum!



After we departed Israel, we went to the Philippines.  We learned that kids in the Philippines love to play tag - the kids were able to burn off a little energy and play a quick game of tag in the gym.  They then sat down and made a bracelet, and learned what the beads and symbols on the beads meant.  We had some pineapple for a snack and were on our way.  (Sadly, my pictures from the Philippines were too dark or blurry to post.)

We landed in Italy, where we talked about pasta, of course, and colored some coloring pages.  One of the student-leaders read the story "Strega Nona".  The kids played the fun game "Lupo Delle Ore," or as we know it: "What time is it Mr. Wolf".  They practiced their Italian, asking  "Lupo che ore sono?" and moved closer and closer to the wolf (one of the student-leaders) until she yelled "MIDNIGHT" and chased them back to the starting line.  After the game, they enjoyed Italian wedding cookies and departed from Italy.



Our final stop was in South Korea.  The kids practiced writing "hi" in Korean: ì•ˆë…•and then made paper fans.  The group competed in a tournament of "Di Bi Di Bi Dip," (pronouned with long e sounds) the Korean version of Rock, Paper, Scissors.  It was a lot of fun for the kids because the symbols involve full-body poses, rather than hand signs.  RJ was the grand Di Bi Di Bi Dip champion!  We finished our time in Korea by having Pepero - chocolate covered cookie sticks.




Audrey slept the entire time we were traveling, and woke up just in time to drive home.  

Monday, April 11, 2011

April Fool's Day Fun

Its been pretty busy around here - for the past 2 weeks, especially.  I had originally thought that we would do a "backwards day" to celebrate April 1, but then a birthday party and a field trip came up.  I'm not brave enough to take my kids out in public with their clothes on backward (on purpose anyway!), so we went about our business dressed like normal people.

RJ went to Craig's Cruisers for the day for his friend's birthday.  The girls and I ran some errands and then went to United Bank for a field trip with the Greenville Home School group.  The kids had so much fun!  The manager first talked to the kids about how the bank is involved in the community:  Around Thanksgiving each year, they buy about 100 dolls and have a contest for people to dress the dolls in the most creative or beautiful way.  After the winner is chosen, that doll is put on display and the other dolls are sent to needy kids who don't have dolls.  The winner is sent to that organization after its been displayed for the year and a new winner is chosen.  I just love it when our kids can learn about different ways they can help others, right in our own "backyard."  Then the kids went to see the vault.  Of course, they had visions of piles of money and gold bars stacked up, so they were naturally a bit disappointed to see only 5 large locked drawers (which contained the cash), a table, a calculator and a timer.  But, that's how banking works in our electronic world.  After that, the manager showed the kids the black light and how they can detect counterfeit bills.  Each of the kids took turns "verifying" a large bill (no they didn't get to keep it!).  Then the kids got to send and call and send the drive through bank tubes.  Finally, the bank had a special treat for the kids:  sugar cookies covered in white frosting and decorated with $ and ¢ symbols!

We finished our April 1 foolishness with backwards breakfast for dinner:  Monkey bread for dessert first and we finished with eggs, fruit, toast, and juice.  Yum!


!yaD s'looF lirpA yppaH

Saturday, April 9, 2011

Happy Birthday to Megan!!!

Megan is three years old today, at 11:27am!


Happy birthday to our sweet Mega-Moo!

Tuesday, April 5, 2011

After the Ice Storm

About 2 weeks ago, we were bombarded by an intense ice storm.  In the middle of the night at our house, the power went out, came back on briefly, and then went back out again.  Even though it was loud enough to wake me up, I found myself coveting my neighbor's generator that night  The house was extremely cold when we got up that chilly Wednesday morning and I could hear vehicles working hard to get up the icy hills on our street.  The kids and I got our stuff together and ventured out of the house to find warmth (and running water!) at my mother-in-law's house, where RJ and Emily were to have piano lessons that day.  The weather that entire day was the kind that makes Michiganders stop and ask, "Why do I live here?"  Thankfully, the power was restored by mid-afternoon (18 hours earlier than estimated) and the house was warming as I and another Mom from Emily's Daisy Troop unloaded 101 cases (1,212 boxes!) of cookies into my living room.  

We woke up on Thursday and headed about our business.  On our way home from gymnastics, RJ, Emily, and I marveled at the beauty of the trees - still covered in ice, shimmering in the bright sunlight.  The pictures are below.  The temperature stayed so cold that the ice didn't melt from the trees until late Friday afternoon, even though the sun was shining down steadily both days.  My Mom dropped Megan off and she (Megan) exclaimed, "Mom!  The trees are sparkly!"  Gotta love seeing the world through a child's eyes!

As I saw the natural beauty all around us, I was reminded of God's love for us...How He uses every situation for His glory.  Sometimes, it is evident nearly immediately, such as with the beautiful sparkly trees after a nasty storm.  Sometimes, its not so immediately aparrant and we tend to get frustrated or impatient...And that's when we need to remember the sparkly trees:




Monday, April 4, 2011

Meijer Gardens 2011

***I've resolved my technical issues (ie: operator error) with Picasa Web, so there will be lots of posts this week!***


Last week, the kids and I went to see the butterfly exhibit at Meijer Gardens with my Mom and my brother's family.  We go every year, and every year we have a wonderful time.  Megan didn't like it when the butterflies flew around her - especially  the larger ones like the Common Morpho.  This year, they had a pretty cool butterfly chair, where the kids could sit and they look like they've got wings and antennae.


Here's some pictures of the kids learning about caterpillars, chrysalids and some tropical plants before going into the main butterfly exhibit.  We saw several new Monarch butterflies in the cases drying out their still-wet wings.


Here we are exploring the main area.  RJ and Emily each like to take a butterfly guide and go on a scavenger hunt to see how many different types of butterflies they can spot.  Megan stayed close to the stroller, a little overwhelmed with all the butterflies flying around.


We then went over to the Children's building and the kids had lots of fun exploring all the butterfly manipulatives and imaginative play items.  The kids built butterflies, looked at mounted butterflies through a magnifying glass, dressed up as butterflies and caterpillars and played with the puppet theater.


After we finished up at Meijer Gardens, we went to McDonalds for lunch and to let the kids play in the play area to get them good and tired.


A great time was had by all.  I'm going to close this post with my favorite picture from our day:

Thank God my kids aren't caterpillars!

Monday, March 21, 2011

DWTS Premiere!

We Sansoterras are so excited for the newest season of Dancing With the Stars!  We allow the kids to stay up late and watch the first half of the Monday shows.  Emily and Megan dance along and RJ makes sure that I don't miss a single cool move.  Its less than 15 minutes into the show and I already have several observations.

  • Where's Derek?  He is one of the best of the male professionals on the show and he's absent.  Maybe he's on to bigger and better things like his sister...
  • What is up with Brooke's dress?  Too odd and badly cut to be pretty.
  • Chelsea Kane - DWTS definitely made a smart move having another Disney kid on.  Kyle Massey was extremely fun to watch last season and Chelsea got a great start in her first dance of the new season.  She was home schooled too - which gives her extra points in my book!  Score:  21
  • Wendy Williams - I've never heard of her, already she cries A LOT, and her dancing is just as smooth and captivating as Kate Goslin's or Bristol Palin's (sense the sarcasm).  Score:  14
  • Hines Ward - I've never heard of him either, but then again I don't watch football.  He's got some great moves on his first dance and great charisma too.  He looks like he's having a lot of fun and he's a lot of  fun to watch!  Score: 21
  • Petra Nemcova - Thailand tsunami survivor is already tugging at people's hearts, due to pain and limitation sin flexibility that she's still experiencing from her injuries 7 years ago.  She dedicated her dance to the people suffering in the Japanese tsunami last week.  Her performance was a bit flat, but she is naturally quite elegant and graceful, so that may keep her in the running for a bit longer.  Score:  18
  • Romeo - Back after being replaced in season 2 by his dad, Master P.  The disconnectedness is on par for week 1, but their Cha Cha is a little too hip-hop for the ballroom, in my opinion.  Score:  19
  • Sugar Ray Leonard - Will he 'float like a butterfly, sting like a bee' in the competition?  The technique was definitely that of a first week dance, but Anna is a great teacher and it was fun to watch too!  Score:  17
  • Kendra Wilkinson - Hmmm...Can the former Girl Next Door rise above rise above her hoochie mama, club dancing roots?  She seems stiff, jerky and even a little forgetful.  Score:  18
  • Ralph Macchio - He looks exactly the same as he did 30 years ago in Karate Kid, except he's taller now - talk about aging well!  His foxtrot was wonderful, he had great technique and elegance, especially for week 1!  Score:  24
  • Chris Jericho - Here's hoping the WWE wrestling champion doesn't accidentally body slam Cheryl.  His Cha Cha was interesting, not great but not horrible.  Score:  19
  • Mike Catherwood - Radio host with a sense of humor.  His foxtrot turned out pretty good for week 1 - he's got some redeeming to do next Monday. (On a side note, I'm not too crazy about Lacey's aluminum foil dress.)  Score:  13
  • Kirstie Alley - I liked her on Cheers.  And that's about it.  She's beyond obnoxious and Maksim is the extremely cocky bad boy.  I see DRAMA in the coming weeks, as they danced a surprisingly good cha cha!  Score:  25  


It looks like its going to be a fun season!

Thursday, March 17, 2011

St. Patrick's Day Fun!

We had a wee bit o' fun with St. Patrick's Day today!  We started the day with a discussion about why we celebrate St. Patrick's Day.  Thanks to Megan's recent obsession with Veggie Tales:  Sumo of the Opera, which has a short film about the history of St. Patrick, RJ and Emily were able to tell me and my Mom the history of this great man.  (See the YouTube video below)

For our art project, the kids had fun transforming themselves into leprochauns and making their names "Irish".  They also did some St. Pat's themed word puzzles and coloring sheets.


For dessert, I made mint flavored, green cupcakes with green buttercream frosting and Skittles rainbows.  Thank goodness we didn't give up sweets for Lent!  (Well, Matt gave up candy, but not desserts, so he can have a cupcake without a rainbow.)  They don't look "Cupcake Wars" worthy, but they sure do taste yummy!






Here's the Veggie Tales St. Patrick short film:


 
 
 
May the road rise to meet you,
May the wind be always at your back,
May the sun shine warm upon your face,
The rains fall soft upon your fields and,
Until we meet again,
May God hold you in the palm of His hand.
~Irish Blessing

Friday, March 11, 2011

The Invisible Mom

My Mom sent this to me in an email today and it really moved me.  After doing a little bit of internet research, I found that it is called "The Invisible Woman:  When Only God Sees" and is written by Nicole Johnson, a speaker at women's conferences. 

I'm invisible.
Some days I am only a pair of hands, nothing more: Can you fix this? Can you tie this? Can you open this?

Some days I'm not a pair of hands; I'm not even a human being. I'm a clock to ask, 'What time is it?' I'm a satellite guide to answer, 'What number is the Disney Channel?' I'm a car to order, 'Right around 5:30, please.' I was certain that these were the hands that once held books and the eyes that studied history and the mind that graduated summa cum laude - but now they had disappeared into the peanut butter, never to be seen again.

She's going... she's going... she's gone!

One night, a group of us were having dinner, celebrating the return of a friend from England Janice had just gotten back from a fabulous trip, and she was going on and on about the hotel she stayed in. I was sitting there, looking around at the others all put together so well. It was hard not to compare and feel sorry for myself as I looked down at my out-of-style dress; it was the only thing I could find that was clean. My unwashed hair was pulled up in a banana clip and I was afraid I could actually smell peanut butter in it. I was feeling pretty pathetic, when Janice turned to me with a beautifully wrapped package, and said, 'I brought you this.'

It was a book on the great cathedrals of Europe I wasn't exactly sure why she'd given it to me until I read her inscription: 'To Charlotte , with admiration for the greatness of what you are building when no one sees.'

In the days ahead I would read - no, devour - the book. And I would discover what would become for me, four life-changing truths, after which I could pattern my work: No one can say who built the great cathedrals - we have no record of their names.These builders gave their whole lives for a work they would never see finished. They made great sacrifices and expected no credit. The passion of their building was fueled by their faith that the eyes of God saw everything.

A legendary story in the book told of a rich man who came to visit the cathedral while it was being built, and he saw a workman carving a tiny bird on the inside of a beam. He was puzzled and asked the man, 'Why are you spending so much time carving that bird into a beam that will be covered by the roof? No one will ever see it.' And the workman replied, 'Because God sees.'

I closed the book, feeling the missing piece fall into place. It was almost as if I heard God whispering to me, 'I see you, Charlotte. I see the sacrifices you make every day, even when no one around you does. No act of kindness you've done, no sequin you've sewn on, no cupcake you've baked, is too small for me to notice and smile over. You are building a great cathedral, but you can't see right now what it will become.'

At times, my invisibility feels like an affliction. But it is not a disease that is erasing my life. It is the cure for the disease of my own self-centeredness. It is the antidote to my strong, stubborn pride. I keep the right perspective when I see myself as a great builder. As one of the people who show up at a job that they will never see finished, to work on something that their name will never be on. The writer of the book went so far as to say that no cathedrals could ever be built in our lifetime because there are so few people willing to sacrifice to that degree.

When I really think about it, I don't want my son to tell the friend he's bringing home from college for Thanksgiving, 'My mom gets up at 4 in the morning and bakes homemade pies, and then she hand bastes a turkey for three hours and presses all the linens for the table.'

That would mean I'd built a shrine or a monument to myself. I just want him to want to come home. And then, if there is anything more to say to his friend, to add, 'You're gonna love it there.'

As mothers, we are building great cathedrals. We cannot be seen if we're doing it right. And one day, it is very possible that the world will marvel, not only at what we have built, but at the beauty that has been added to the world by the sacrifices of invisible women.
This writing reminds me of a passage of Matthew that we read with our Lenten devotional this week.  In Matthew 6, Jesus is in the middle of His Sermon on the Mount.  He instructs us to not call attention to or to seek reward for our righteous acts, prayers, and fasting.  Throughout the passage (vs 1-8), He repeatedly tells us that these things should be done discreetly, "in secret".  "Then your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you." 

Any mother can surely relate to this feeling of invisibility.  It can sometimes be challenging to look beyond the invisibility of "right now" and see the benefits that will come in the future - our children's lives. 

The next time you feel invisible, remember that Someone is always watching.

Thursday, March 10, 2011

Why is it 'Wrong' to Teach Kids Responsibility?

One of my favorite mom blogs is written by Dawn Meehan - Because I Said So. She posted awhile back about the responses she received from her readers about her having her older children help pick up the younger children's toys. Apparently, some of the readers were appalled that Ms. Meehan would have her older kids help the younger kids out. I completely, utterly and thoroughly do not understand that opinion.

Why isn't it OK to teach kids responsibility?
Why isn't it OK to have kids help with chores?
Why isn't it OK to teach kids to help each other out?

In my opinion, Ms. Meehan was completely right to ask her olders to help the youngers out. American society, in general has really lost most important aspect of family which is that families are supposed to function as a team. No, families don't get along ALL of the time, but we are all supposed to pitch in and help each other out.

Our society is so wierdly kid-centered: parents work hard and then give their kids everything and anything they want.  Often times to relieve the guilt not being able to spend alot of time with their kids (Can we say viscious cycle?). WHY?  As a result, a lot of kids these days are just overly self-involved and self-centered.  No, I'm not some 60 year old, complaining about "whipper-snappers".  Working in a fast food restaurant for 12 years supplied a huge amount of teenagers for me to observe. 

Kids need limits, boundaries and responsibilities!!!

When I was 5, I was standing on a chair, washing dishes every night after dinner.
When I was 12, I made at least one dinner a week.
As I grew older, I was responsible for doing my own laundry.
When I was 16, I bought my own gas and car insurance - and car.
I was responsible for sweeping, mopping and cleaning the bathroom regularly.

As a result, I learned that satisfaction and self-esteem can be gained from a job well done.  I also learned that the things that are most important require hard work to achieve.  Shame on my Mom for instilling a healthy work ethic in me and my brother! 

My olders, who are 8 and 6, are responsible for helping around the house. They have to clean their room about once a week. They clean the youngers' toys up once in a while. They have set the table. My son helps shovel snow and he cleans the litter box. They help clean walls, windows and scrub floors. And they make their beds every day.

In working within our family as a team - Mom and Dad are the coaches, as well as players.  I hope to instill in my children a sense of responsibility, ownership and family values.

Tuesday, March 8, 2011

Homeschool Mardi Gras Party!

A serious amount of cabin fever necessitated a break in our same ol' same ol' schedule.  Mardi Gras provided an easy opportunity to plan a fun day around.  We've never celebrated Mardi Gras before, so I did some research and came up with some fun activities to do this morning. 

Mardi Gras is French for "Fat Tuesday" and the celebration stems from the French tradition of parading a fat ox through the town square to remind the people that they were to abstain from meat during the Lenten season.  Through my research, I learned some of the many ways that different cultures celebrate Mardi Gras, most including parades, masks, beads and more. 

We donned on clothes in the colors of Mardi Gras:  purple, green, and gold and we started the party with a brassy jazz version of "When the Saints Go Marching In".  For breakfast, we had a pancake party.  Our pancakes were covered in whipped cream and topped with purple and green sprinkles.  After our pancake party, we started in on our arts and crafts.  The kids made colorful pictures of Mardi Gras masks, a Mardi Gras bunny paper craft, and we all made crowns to wear for our mini-parade.  After our parade, we played a simple Mardi Gras board game. 


Pancake Party!

Mardi Gras Arts & Crafts


Mardi Gras Fun For Everyone!

Our first Mardi Gras party was great fun!

Monday, March 7, 2011

What's the Point in Giving Up Stuff for Lent?

Meat
Chocolate
Coffee or Caffeine
TV, Video Games, Computer
Sugar or Other Desserts
Soda
Saying Alleluia

These are all things that we hear people talking about "giving up" for Lent.  Lent begins this Wednesday - Ash Wednesday - and lasts 40 days (not counting Sundays) until Easter Sunday, April 24.  The 40 days recall the 40 day fast of Jesus in the wilderness after his baptism (Matthew 4 and Luke 4).  Giving things up on Lent isn't solely to have us suffer like Jesus, but to remove some of our daily distractions so that we can draw closer to Jesus.  In a crazy, chaotic, overstimulated world, Lent provides a place of simplicity and solace wherein we can reflect on our baptism, and focus on Jesus teachings and trials right up until he died on the cross for our salvation. 

Some might ask, "Why bother to give something up if you're just going to go right back to it on Easter anyways?"  Good question!  In a culture of instant gratification and over-indulgence, I'm hoping that giving up something that I focus entirely too much of my energy on will help me to either: a.) determine that I don't "need" it at all after Easter, or (more realistically) b.) have that something in my life, but in a more balanced way.  In my opinion, there's absolutely no point in giving up something for Lent if you're just going to go back to "life as usual" on the Monday after Easter. 

Does a person need to give up something for Lent?  No.  There is no specific Biblical mention of the custom of Lent.  The Bible does, however, have several instances of fasting, repentance, mourning and reflection.  I believe observing Lent in this way is a personal, spiritual choice that should be approached in a prayerful way.  If you feel led or convicted to abstain from something for Lent, by all means, do it - don't let denomination get in your way!  If you don't fell led to give something up, don't.  One of the most powerful lessons I've learned recently is that God convicts me in a way that is different than the way He convicts you.  Just because I'm giving up something for Lent doesn't make me a better person than a person who doesn't.  

The most important thing to remember is that Lent is a journey that leads to Jesus Christ, dying on the cross to save us from our sins.  What better way to remember Jesus' journey to the cross than by drawing closer to Him on our own Lenten journey?



Click on the picture for a Lent Calendar for your kids!


Saturday, February 26, 2011

Mother Daughter Cooking

We were recently given a huge stack of books, among which was the American Girl Molly's Cookbook.  I gave the cookbook to Emily to look at and she immediately started asking if we could make just about every recipe in it.  So, we sat down and planned out a dinner that we would make together.  She chose meatloaf, mashed potato volcanoes, peas, parsley biscuits, deviled eggs and applesauce cupcakes for dessert.  I had so much fun teaching her how to cook and bake and she had a lot of fun helping out in the kitchen.  I think that we've just started a tradition, as she wants to do it again and RJ is interested in helping with meals too!

Thursday, February 24, 2011

"Mere Christianity", by C.S. Lewis


From the book "Mere Christianity", by C.S. Lewis. Page 148-149, the second chapter on Faith:

"Christians have often disputed as to whether what leads the Christian home [Heaven] is good actions, or Faith in Christ...Faith in Christ is the only thing to save you from despair at that point: and out of that faith in Him good actions must inevitably come. There are two parodies of the truth which different sets of Christians have, in the past, been accused by other Christians of believing: perhaps they may make the truth clearer. One set were accused of saying, 'Good actions are all that matters. The best good action is charity. The best kind of charity is giving money. The best thing to give money to is the Church. So hand us over $10,000 and we will see you through.; The answer to that nonsense of course, would be that good actions done for that motive , done with the idea that Heaven can be bought, would not be good actions at all, but only commercial speculations. The other set were accused of saying, 'Faith is all that matters. Consequently, if you have faith, it doesn't matter what you do. Sin away, my lad, and have a good time and Christ will see that it makes no difference in the end.' The answer to that nonsense is that, if what you call your 'faith' in Christ does not involve taking the slightest notice of what He says, then it is not Faith at all - not faith or trust in Him, but only intellectual acceptance of some theory about Him. The Bible really seems to clinch the matter when it puts the two things together into one amazing sentence. The first half is, 'Work out your own salvation with fear and trembling' - which looks as if everything depended on us and our good actions: but the second half goes on, 'For it is God who worketh in you' - which looks as if God did everything and we did nothing."

Thursday, February 17, 2011

Five Strategies for Reading Revelation

1.  Read it like a political cartoon:  It is much deeper than a literal picture.
2.  Don't stop reading until you hear singing:  Revelation is cyclical.
3.  Keep prophecy Biblical.
4.  Keep one finger in the Old Testament:  Use the Old Testament to help interpret what's being said in Revelation.
5.  Think like a Roman:  Put Revelation in the context of Roman times and thinking.

Monday, February 14, 2011

Homeschool Art Project: Heart-y Buddies

Today's art project is, of course, inspired by Valentine's Day!  We cut out different size hearts from pink, red, and white paper.  Then, we arranged our hearts into animal shapes.  RJ and Emily also had a Valentine's word search and coloring page a picture incorporating Galatians 5:14 "Love your neighbor as yourself."

Here are our buddies!



Happy Valentine's Day!!!

Friday, February 11, 2011

Homeschool Art Project: Mosaics

The concept of our art project this week came about somewhat serendipitously:


In RJ's science, we're doing a unit on how the Earth moves around the Sun.  That, of course, leads to discussions on how we measure time - by the year, months, days, and by hours.  While discussing sun dials from a library book about the Roman Empire, I came across a section on mosaics.  Roman mosaics were made from stone, tile or glass pieces.  We made ours out of construction paper remnants leftover from other projects that still had usability.  I cut the papers up into pieces of random shape and size and the kids created these:  (Click either image to see the rest of the photos)




Ars gratia artis

Saturday, January 29, 2011

Verses of Comfort

During my Bible study of Paul, I learned that he encountered some truly frustrating circumstances. His trials and his faith in the face of those trials are an inspiration to me. After all, if he can keep on with what God wants him to do even after being beaten, stoned, flogged and imprisoned, why can't I?

No temptation has overtaken you except what is common to mankind. 
And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can endure it. I Corinthians 10:13

For just as we share abundantly in the sufferings of Christ, so also our comfort abounds through Christ.  II Corinthians 1:5

Indeed, we felt we had received the sentence of death. But this happened that we might not rely on ourselves but on God, who raises the dead.
II Corinthians 1:9

But we have this treasure in jars of clay to show that this all-surpassing power is from God and not from us.  II Corinthians 4:7

For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all.  II Corinthians 4:17

Friday, January 14, 2011

Homeschool Art Project: Collaborative ArtPrize Collage

This past September, we went to see ArtPrize, a huge outdoor art competition held in downtown Grand Rapids.  Artists from all over the world find a place to exhibit their art and people from all over can attend and vote for their favorite art.    Most of the artists had business cards, postcards, or pamphlets about their piece for visitors to pick up, so I had the kids grab the cards of the pieces that they really liked. 

I pulled those cards out today and RJ and Emily made a collage with them.  We talked about visual balance, layers, color schemes and more.  This project was a lot of fun for them and it got them excited to go to ArtPrize again this fall!

Click on the picture to see more pictures of the work in progress.  

ArtPrize Collage
 

Thursday, January 13, 2011

What I Learned From "Squeaky Green"

I've just recently read "Squeaky Green," by Eric Ryan and Adam Lowry and I liked it! Its an easy read and gives some great tips for detoxing your home. Here are my notes:

1. Living Room

  • Leave the shoes at the door.
  • Use a steam carpet cleaner (2x a year) instead of a shampoo-er
  • Use vegetable, milk based, low VOC paints, rugs and carpets.
  • Use microfiber cloths to dust.
  • Don't use ammonia based glass cleaners. Use vinegar instead.
  • Older furniture has less harmful materials. Buy furniture that is certified by the FSC (Forest Stewardship Council).
  • New car/carpet/plastic smell is not good to inhale. 
  • Clean the vacuum every 6 mos.
  • Use non-toxic paint strippers.
  • Buy PBDE-free furniture.
  • Particle board is made with formaldehyde.
  • Get a high efficiency pleated furnace filter.
2. Kitchen
  • Get rid of antibacterials.
  • Get rid of chlorine bleach.
  • Replace plastic microwave containers with glass/Pyrex.
  • Use wax paper instead of plastic wrap.
  • Buy phosphate free dishwasher detergent.
  • Buy produce locally.
  • Don't buy cleaners that say "toxic, corrosive, caustic."
  • Use a microfiber mop with non-toxic floor cleaner.
3. Bedroom
  • Buy a PBDE-free mattress, such as organic natural latex.
  • Buy un-dyed linen, organic cotton or bamboo sheets.
  • No-iron (sheets or shirts) are treated with formaldehyde.
  • Use paraffin wax candles only.
4. Bathroom
  • 'Hydrosol' in beauty/body products means nothing.
  • 'Extracts' just means water.
  • Try to buy 95% or higher of natural ingredients in beauty/body products.
  • Triclosan in toothpaste is dangerous.
  • Buy bar soaps that are EDTA free.
  • Avoid lotions, shaving gels, shampoo and toothpaste that have parabens or other "-abens".
  • Buy an non-PVC shower curtain and liner - like hemp, cotton or canvas (which are also machine washable).
  • Put the lid down and then flush.
  • There's propane in aerosol air fresheners. Use essential oils instead.
  • Hang a sprig of eucalyptus from the shower head. It released essential oils and helps relieve congestion.
  • Squeegee the shower.
5. Laundry room
  • Use nontoxic, concentrated un-chlorinated bleach that's biodegradable or hydrogen peroxide (16 oz.)
  • Use 1 cup of white vinegar in the "clean" cycle on the washing machine.
6. Kids' Rooms
  • Use paints and markers certified by the ACMI.
  • Check out www.thegreenguide.com, it has a list of clean and dirty arts and crafts supplies.
  • By organic cotton, snug fitting PJs instead of the flame retardant ones.
  • Buy PVC free toys (AKA: the #3 in the recycle triangle or the letter "v").
7. Pets
  • Avoid flea shampoos and collars. Use eucalyptus oil or cloves instead, as well as feeding dog a few cloves of garlic daily.
  • Give the dog a bath 1x a week with a natural soap.
  • Use PVC free toys.
Step by step...

Tuesday, January 11, 2011

Natural Cleaner 'Recipes'

I wanted to share these recipes since this is the time of year that we tend to focus on organizing and then Spring cleaning. 

It is possible to keep your home clean without toxic chemicals!  I use scented vinegar, baking soda, Dr. Bronner's, Sal Suds, and dish soap for all of my household cleaning.

Multi-Purpose Scrub: 
16(or 22) oz bottle:
Mix 1 2/3 (2) cups  baking soda with 1/2 cup Dr. Bronner's in a bowl. 
Add 1/2 (2/3) cup of water. 
Add 2 Tbsp vinegar.
Stir until the lumps are gone.  If it pours into the bottle easily, it is the right consistancy - if not, add a little more water. 
Shake well before using.

A great 'Softscrub' for tub, sink, toilet, garbage cans. 
Can also be used to deckscrub linoleum floors with heavy buildup - squirt on floor and scrub.  Let sit and then scrub again.  Dry wipe with towels.  Spray with vinegar and wipe/mop again.

Kitchen Cleanser (I use a plastic parmesan cheese container with the label peeled off)
Fill Shaker 1/2 full with baking soda
Add 15-20 drops essential oil (Optional) and stir
Fill shaker to the top with baking soda
Put top on and shake

This 'Comet' of a cleaner is great for sinks, tubs, pots and pans.  Rinse and spray with vinegar to dissolve residue.

Glass Cleaner:
Fill a spray bottle with scented vinegar or club soda.

Scented Vinegar:
Fill a spray bottle with vinegar and 15-20 drops of your favorite essential oil.  I like lemon or tea tree oil.

Oven Cleaner:
Mix 1/4 cup salt and 3/4 cup baking soda in a bowl and put into a shaker bottle.
Spray Sal Sud's spray in oven and then shake soda/salt mixture on.
Spray again with Sal Sud's spray.
Make a paste with soda/salt mix and 1/4 cup water and spread on sides/top of oven.
Let sit over night.
Scrape or scrub off and wipe down with Sal Sud's spray. 
Spray with vinegar to dissolve residue.

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Sal Sud's Spray: from Dr. Bronner website
Fill 1 quart spray bottle nearly to the top with water
Add 1 Tbsp Sal Sud's

This is a 'Fantastic' multi-purpose spray cleaner!

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Bubble Juice: (Not really a cleaner, but good clean fun!)
1 1/2 cups water
3 Tbsp or more dish soap
Glycerin (optional)